Tuesday, May 23, 2006

Am emotional post from me!

"What one takes up as a passion is a time pass for another!" - these words kind of affected me a lot. This is not about some hobbies - this is about LOVE! Someone wrote these words to me. I just felt a sting in my heart - romba kavalaya poiduchu. I have been discussing this with some one and when she was sharing her sorrows with me - I am feeling that pain! I need to vent my anger out! and thats y I am writing this post - and I am just writing on behalf of some people who are girls who have been cheated by the so called Love! Guys - If u want to go and fiddle around with the girls - y the heck do u go and cheat the homely poor girls who have trusted you! For pete's sake - there are loads of girls who are ready to fiddle around with guys, there are 100s of girls who are ready to remove their tops off in front of some idiot's mobile phone - go fiddle around with them! I dont understand - y do u go and say "I luv u" to someone, give her hopes and then leave her and run away! U dont know the bloody consequences. One person even went to the extent of commiting suicide! And gals - y the heck do u believe some tom, dick or harry when he comes and gives u a bloody 5/- rose! U shuld have kicked his ***** - and he wuld never ever propose to anyone!

If someone comes and proposes to u and if u really like him - then tell him - if u love me - come and ask my parents for a hand! Dont ever trust him, and go around with him!Tell ur parents about it!Mudincha tell his parents about it!Then that idiot will never cheat!

Ippadi solrathaala - naan enna periya yogiyan-aanu kekalam! All these years - I have fallen in luv with some girls! Unmai thaan! I wanted to marry them - But I can say that I have never ever gone and proposed to any of them! The reason - I knew I will not be able to marry them! Naan luv pannuna - muthala enga amma kitta thaan poi soli iruken! If u cant marry someone - then pl dont go and propose!Sry guys - I am just emotional! Sry!

23 Comments:

Anonymous Kaartika said...

Unga kovam nyayamaanadhu thaan! Aana naan eppome punnuda thappu thaan solvein.Yenna....

"Banana leaf thorn mela vizhunthaalum illai thorn banana leaf mela vizhunthaalum, banana leaf thaan kizhiyum"

Oru ponnuda life andha banana leaf polla, romba sensitive. It is upto the girl to protect herself! Punnu konjam edam koduthaa, pasanga romba advantage edupanga.

"Eppome nama suthi oru circle podanum. Nama adhuku veliya poga kudathu, yarayum adhu kulla vida kodhathu"

The circle is our limits. Nama, limits ellarum koda maintain pannanum.
Pasanga eppadi irundhalum, punnu stronga irukonam. No guy will proceed if the girl strongly disapproves.

Adhuku oru nalla example, thaarani oda friend sangeetha!!!

3:28 PM, May 23, 2006  
Anonymous Kaartika said...

Aaana, indha ulagam evolo kevalam, oru sillla chinna punnuku theriyadhu! Our culture teaches us alot of values in the form of stories. Parents should explain to their child at the right time and right manner. Children wont listen. But the parents should repeatedly keep telling their child and should keep track of what their child is doing.

3:34 PM, May 23, 2006  
Blogger krk said...

Arjun

1. This issue what you have raised is very very subjective.
2. So LOVE, is used as a matter of fun by either sex, so as you have mentined, it is not INDULGED ONLY by guys.
3. The one what you are talking cannot be recognised as love by a forum or a blog, unless and otherwise by the parties involved.

Initially i refrained from posting my comment but then, my love for your frankness, to comeforward, to support your friend, made to write this.

7:12 PM, May 23, 2006  
Blogger Shuba said...

It always happens at times....I jus can say one thing...people shd be more precautions nad not trust anyone so easily...cos there are wolves in lambs coats

3:49 AM, May 24, 2006  
Anonymous vidhyalakshmi said...

post s really emotional...
kaartika s 100% correct, but eppadi ponna thappa sollalam. avnga sonna proverb correct thaan. enna nadanthaalum adhu ponna thaan rhombha affect pannum. aana adhukaaga ponna mattum kuttram sollradhu --- nalla illa. avanga rendu perukkum andha thappula pangu irukku.
girls eppovum oru circle la irukanum thaan, appadi irundhavangalum niraye peru emaandhu poi irukaanga. cos oruthan oru ponna emaathanum ninaichaana andha ponnoda weakness therinjukitaana podhum, andha ponnu enna dhaan oru circle la irundhaalum avan vazhikku kondu vandhuduvaan. pasanga eppovum selfish thaan... --- sorry to say this, aana idhu thaan unmai.

4:19 AM, May 24, 2006  
Blogger Arjuna_Speaks said...

Praveena - well said! And when words such that as this come from u - it has so much depth and meaning :)..thanks a lot :)..But the banana leaf thingie made me laugh :))..tamila athuku peyar vaala illai :) - great words there Praveena :)

8:17 AM, May 24, 2006  
Blogger Arjuna_Speaks said...

Krk - thanks for ur comment buddy :)..yes - what I am trying to say is - If guys want to cheat - they could very well go and cheat some gal who is also cheating and playing around :)

8:18 AM, May 24, 2006  
Blogger Arjuna_Speaks said...

Shuba -yup ur right! :)

8:19 AM, May 24, 2006  
Blogger Arjuna_Speaks said...

vidhya - I agree with u completely! Romba correct!

8:20 AM, May 24, 2006  
Anonymous vidhyalakshmi said...

arju anna, ungal comment il pizhai ulladhu.
sor kuttramo illai porul kuttramo alla. maa berum pizhai....manikka mudiyatha pizhai..
kaartika ennum nam nanbiyin peyarai maatri praveena endru aal maatram seithulleergal...
idharku thaangal thandanayai ettre aaga vendum.

9:31 AM, May 24, 2006  
Blogger krk said...

hey-if you see a girl and if can figureout what kind of girl...then....you are a born genius...so...i feel that this logic if flawed...

10:02 AM, May 24, 2006  
Blogger Parvati said...

Good post. As always your whole body seems be not made up of cells but only of heart heart heart heart. Our Arjuna is a Good Man. :)

1:24 PM, May 24, 2006  
Blogger Arjuna_Speaks said...

Vidhya manithu arulungal thaaye :P lol

11:19 PM, May 24, 2006  
Blogger Arjuna_Speaks said...

KrK - valid point there :)

11:19 PM, May 24, 2006  
Blogger Arjuna_Speaks said...

Haa PArvati - will send u a mail :)..thanks a lot for ur never ending praises :))

11:20 PM, May 24, 2006  
Blogger shanmugappriya said...

hi

great post arjun,
well said karthika, ninga sonnathu rompa correct.

Kadhal-al mugathay maraythu,

Anbhu ennum varthaykal polintthu,

Raama-ray oun parvaygal avvan mithu vila,

Penne ! unnay parisaga kedkum poluthu

Unnay illakathe !

11:24 PM, May 24, 2006  
Blogger வேதா said...

romba feel panni ezhuthiteenga pola. actually girls should be careful. i really pity those girls who jus fall for the romantic gimmicks of the boys. i think we should act more mature. when we were discussing abt luv in my tamil class in college, my professor said these lines, ' u may come across many crushes in life, u must be careful to chose ur real luv in life. she said if u really luv someone,(tis is for girls) u will find it difficult to meet his eyes. and if it is not the same with the boy(he should be bold enough to meet her eyes) and if he proposes, then he will be ur luv of life' actually i dont know whether thats true.

3:02 AM, May 25, 2006  
Anonymous vidhyalakshmi said...

hmm....ivalavu en kitta mandradi kekaradhaala, kenji kekkaradhaala, varpuruthi kekaradhaala, ponaa poguthu... mannithom....

4:02 AM, May 25, 2006  
Anonymous vidhyalakshmi said...

'u may come across many crushes in life, u must be careful to chose ur real luv in life. she said if u really luv someone,(tis is for girls) u will find it difficult to meet his eyes. and if it is not the same with the boy(he should be bold enough to meet her eyes) and if he proposes, then he will be ur luv of life'

veda sonnadhu correcta irukkumo? but eppadi confirm pannikaradhu nu thaan theriyala....

4:05 AM, May 25, 2006  
Blogger Arjuna_Speaks said...

Shanmugapriya - en kannaiyai ennala namba mudiyala - ippadi ellam kavithai kuda eluthiveengala???? superb! :)

6:22 AM, May 28, 2006  
Blogger Arjuna_Speaks said...

Ooops Veda - I can virtually c any gals' eyes :)) - no inhibitions :))..so I am not sure whether this holds true for lollus like me :))

6:23 AM, May 28, 2006  
Blogger Arjuna_Speaks said...

vidhya - check my reply to vedha :)

6:24 AM, May 28, 2006  
Blogger shanmugappriya said...

arjuna athu ennoda kavithay illai.
read it on a book.

Antha thiramay ennaku iruntha naan engayoooooooo poiy irupean !
At least Dan Brown maathiry endralum vanthu irupean !

10:05 PM, May 29, 2006  

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